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Showing posts with label baby #2. Show all posts
Showing posts with label baby #2. Show all posts

Thursday, November 29, 2012

Happy 7 Months!

IMG_9058So she’s really almost 7.5 months, but shhh she’ll never know I posted this late. :)  I hate that 7 months means we’re on the downhill slope to being 1.  Not yet, not yet.  It’s going too fast.

No weight stats as we just did a quickie vaccine appointment and Owen was so grumpy that I didn’t have them weigh her.  She’s definitely smaller than Owen who was already 20 lbs at this point!  We had already transitioned him to his bigger car seat.  But even though she’s heavy, the bucket seat is still working for a bit longer.  I like being able to throw blankets over her instead of bundling her up when we go outside.  IMG_9068New Things She's Learning/Doing: We're starting to hear tons more consonant sounds in her talk.   There are times I swear she is saying mama, mama.  Her sweet little girly voice just melts my heart.  Although she still has a very loud screech going on sometimes.  She sits, can get down back onto her belly, and is a rolling machine.  She can get exactly where she needs to go by rolling or scooting backwards and I don’t think it will be but a few more days before she’s crawling!  She’s banging toys together and is clapping her hands so adorably.  She is also starting to let Owen know that she is not happy with him when he takes away a toy from her.IMG_9069 Sleep: Well, I think I jinxed myself by thinking she was going to be a better sleeper.  Well, during the day time she is.  She takes 3 naps that are pretty predictable and just jabbers for awhile and puts herself to sleep.  Night time has moved up quite a bit and usually she needs to be in bed by 6 or 6:30.  She does a good stretch until 10 or 11, but then she thinks she’s a newborn and gets up every 2 hours wanting to “eat.”  Uggh, gotta change this somehow!IMG_9071Food:  Well, we took a week or so off of food because the poor thing got sick.  Runny noses and coughs from babies are so awful. So she didn’t have much of an appetite and I wanted to pump her full of breast milk, so just in this last week, she’s started eating “solids” again.  Pretty much loves it all so far and is still the messiest eater I’ve ever seen.IMG_9098Randoms:  Still loves loves loves her brother.  Opens her mouth to give “kisses.”  And still keeps her headbands on.  That’s my girl!IMG_9055 Love you so much Ellison Jakeh!!IMG_8962IMG_9048 blog-signature-1

Monday, October 29, 2012

Happy 6 Months!

IMG_8241My sweet little girl is 6 months old (well, a few weeks ago).  A half a year.  Whew that went fast.   The first birthday party may already be in the planning stages.  She is developing such a sweet little personality and for the most part is a happy little girl!IMG_8201The Stats: This was a week ago or so, but she’s growing great.  She’s 16lb 12.5 oz (75th percentile) and 26.5 in (75th percentile).  Her head continues to be the perfect knitting head model at 42.5 cm and exactly the 50th percentile.  IMG_8210Milestones:  She’s been sitting up for about 3 weeks now completely by herself.   She loves the freedom this is bringing her.  I think Owen thinks she’s a big kid now because he’s been a little more rough with her lately.  She also can scoot herself backwards while on her tummy.  I have a feeling she’ll be full on moving much quicker than I want her to.  She babbles all the time and is a shrieker!!IMG_8242Loves/Hates:  She loves to sit up and play with her basket of toys.  Owen only allows her to play with certain trucks and cars, but she does love when she can get her hands on anything that’s not a “baby toy.”  She loves her jumperoo and likes to be in on all the action.  She loves bath time, especially now that she can sit up just like her brother without anything holding her.IMG_8196She loves to kick her legs.  Anytime you lay her on her back, this is what she does.  She’ll do it for awhile before putting herself to sleep.Feeding:  She is still a great nurser. She typically just nurses on one side unless it’s before bedtime.  I love nursing at this stage.  She gets so excited before diving into the boob.   She is getting a little more distractable, so we usually have to go nurse in her room to be sure she eats everything.    But onto the more fun things: “real” food!  She’s doing a great job eating.  I’m pretty lazy with this, so she only gets it about once a day.  She is the messiest eater which drives me crazy.  So far, she has had:

butternut squash
avocado
pears
apples
peas
sweet potato
banana (poor girl’s tummy was a mess after these)
rice cereal IMG_8232-2Sleep: she’s a great napper.  Usually 3 a day.  One early morning, one right around lunch and the last one later in the afternoon.  I nurse her and she’ll put herself to sleep.  Nighttime sleep is awful right now though.  I feel like she’s reverted back to newborn sleep and is up every 2 hours or so “needing” the boob.  We’re about ready to do a little night weaning tough love. :)  This momma’s tired.IMG_8244 Other stuff: She is going through some major stranger anxiety.  I tried to leave her in the nursery for a Mom2Mom event and I got paged within about 10 minutes.  But she finally recognizing William as her dad though and she gives him the biggest smiles!IMG_8219Except for once or twice, she continues to leave things on her head!  I’m one happy momma about this one.IMG_8209And of course, she’s still madly in love with her brother.  She lights up when he comes in the room and watches his every move. I pray they continue to be good friends!IMG_8282 Such an amazing little person.  We love you Ellison Jakeh!

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Monday, October 15, 2012

National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day


Today is National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day.  I don’t really need a day to help me remember this part of my journey to motherhood.  But I want to talk about it.  Do you know that 1 in 4 women experience a miscarriage in their lives, and yet it’s still a subject that so many people are quiet about?  And I wouldn’t have gotten through what I did without the help of other women who had also experienced the loss.

A few months before our first wedding anniversary, we decided to “pull the goalie” and try to get pregnant.  Within a few months, we got our first positive on a pregnancy test! IMG_8390But in July, while I was up in Pentwater for our family vacation I started to bleed and later that day, I had a miscarriage. I remember coming down to the great room where my family surrounded me and prayed for me.  I sat numb with a heating pad until William came up to get me.  The doctor said it was just an early miscarriage for no real reason that they could detect.  So while I was crushed, we started trying again immediately on my next cycle.  I thought it would happen as quickly as it did the first time.

But we spent the next year charting and trying every cycle with no luck. Finally, after about a year my doctor said she was willing to try Clomid.  After only one cycle on this and almost exactly a year after our first pregnancy, I saw this:IMG_9384I was cautious, but very very excited!   A couple weeks later I went for my first ultrasound.  I knew immediately but the tech’s face that something might be wrong.  The doctor told me that she could only see a gestational sac forming, but that it might be too early for her to see anything else.  The following week I went back for another ultrasound. This time there was a bigger sac, but still nothing in it. The doctor told me that I likely had a blighted ovum, but that she needed to check the following week to make sure. If you don’t know, a blighted ovum is when there is something that causes the embryo to simply not form, however the placenta doesn’t know and keeps growing as normal, so the body thinks (and acts) like it is carrying a healthy pregnancy when in fact there is no baby.  I was puking and gaining weight.

The following days were tortuous and I knew that this wasn’t going to have a good outcome. My suspicions were confirmed at my next ultrasound. Still no baby and my body still thought it was pregnant. I was devastated.  Not only was I miscarrying, but it had taken me over a year to even get here.  And with no “actual” baby in the sac, I wasn’t quite sure how to grieve.  I was given the option to wait to miscarry naturally or to have everything removed via an operation.  I waited for 3 weeks for my body to do it naturally, but my doctor decided in my 11th week that I needed to have a d&c, since my body obviously had no idea that it wasn’t really pregnant.  When I got home from having the surgery, not only did I feel empty and so sad, but I was in some of the worst pain of my life.    And then I had to untell people.  So many people either didn’t know what to say to me and it was awkward or they said the wrong thing that just made it worse.

So why am I sharing my story? It’s because when I was miscarrying, I felt so alone. I was sure that something was wrong with me and that no one could understand my pain. I was wrong. I confided in family and friends that I was miscarrying, and they began to tell me their own stories of miscarriage. I also went online and found a support group full of women in different stages of grief after their miscarriages.   I got prayer.  Lots of prayer. 

I just want you know know that if you have miscarried or have lost a child, you are not alone. You are part of a club that no one wants to join, but once you are a member, the support is overflowing. I also wanted to give you hope.  Mine is one of the stories that has a happy ending:  Ellison Jakeh - JennaMy two losses are a part of my life story.  It’s a story that connects me with many women in a way that I never would have had a chance to connect with.  I will patiently wait to meet my two other babies. I know that they are with Jesus. Happy and safe and perfect.
Thank you Jesus that you are good, all the time, even though we sometimes don't understand.  Thank you that despite the pain, our story leads us to Owen and Ellison.  I know that had I not experienced the miscarriages, I would not know these two amazing, wonderful children.  I pray today for the dozens of women that I know and so many others that I don’t and remember their sweet little ones who left Earth much too soon.  Bring hope and healing to their hearts.
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Thursday, October 11, 2012

house tour {Ellison's Nursery!}

My sweet little girl's room has been done for months now, but I am finally just getting around to cleaning up the piles of laundry that never get put away, taking pictures, and getting them posted! It's a pretty small room, but it's perfect for Ellison!  When you open up the door, this is what you see.  (I did take out the ottoman for the pictures since it takes up quite a bit of room.) IMG_7799 We took down the ceiling fan that was in there and added one of my favorite things. . .her light.  And by we, I mean William and my dad.  It's from IKEA and it was my splurge (kinda like I splurged on Owen's mobile).  I love, love, love it! Now let's start from the left and go clockwise around the room.  In Owen’s room, I had the 2 dressers together.  I loved that because I was able to leave the wipes and things out on the other dresser for easier access.  But there just wasn’t room to do that in this room, so her diapers and wipes are in the top drawer under the changing pad.Above her dresser is her big bow board that gets added to pretty regularly.IMG_7784Behind her crib is the one wall I did a paint treatment on.  This is absolutely my favorite thing in her room and I almost wish I had done it on all the walls.  I love is because it is so subtle.  See, in this picture, the walls just look tan.But from this angle, you see that there is a pattern on the wall.  See how I did it here.Here is a close up of her adorable pink sheets from Target.  My mom made a simple pink crib skirt with a little ruffle in it. I decided to pass on the crib bumpers this time around.  Not really because I’m all about the controversy that surrounds them, but Owen just played with them too much during nap times.  And I will do anything with this child to make her a better sleeper than he was. IMG_7844Above her crib hang another one of my favorite projects, her 3 flower balls. Moving around the room is her first closet and then her window seat.  I knew I wanted ruffle curtains.  We toyed around with the idea of making our own ruffle curtains like these or these.  But then I found this fabric from rufflefabric.com and decided it was perfect.  They had the most amazing customer service and sent me 6 FREE samples of the fabrics so I could be sure I was getting the right color pink.  And all my mom had to do was literally cut the fabric in half and sew the top so they’d fit through a rod.My mom took an extra crib sheet and covered a little pad for under the window to make a perfect place for some reading.  And a perfect place to take some of her monthly pictures.  Oh my goodness, she was tiny!IMG_6940Anywhoo, moving around she has another closet and then you see this wall.  Details on how I did the wall stuff is here.I bought a simple white light from Target and my mom helped me cover it using extra fabric from her curtains.I found 2 of these adorable pink boxes at our Tuesday Morning a store that reminds of a TJ Maxx in a way.IMG_7847Here the view from the window seat area.And a close up of what’s on the floating shelves on the left.  The doll was mine when I was little.  This is one of the only books I’ve seen that has Ellison’s name in it.  Becca and Matt gave it to her!  The little elephant in the story is a boy, but oh well. :)  And my favorite thing from this wall is the ballerina picture.  Growing up, I had a ballet themed room.  I never changed the wallpaper even in high school.  My parents bought me this picture for that room.  I had them change the mat so I could use it in Ellie’s room. But I made sure that they didn’t touch the inscription on the back.  What a cool dad I have.  He makes a pretty awesome Grandpa too. And that’s it!  Hope you enjoyed the tour as much I enjoyed putting it together for my sweet little girl!
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Monday, October 8, 2012

Ellie's bow board

I realized that before I give you the fill tour, I needed to fill you in on one more little project. . .Ellison’s bow board.  This thing gets used every day because yes, she rarely leaves the house without a bow. :)  I made this board using things I already had so it was “technically” free! 

I used an old bulletin board that I wasn’t using any more.  I hot glued a piece of fleece over the cork, so the board was even with the frame.  Does that make sense?  Then I stretched pink fabric over the board and hot glued it tightly to the back.  The ribbons were all from my baby sprinkle and were on gifts.  I measured and glued them evenly on the back of the board.  IMG_1281The little rolled flowers were used from leftover sheets that my mom used to make her little pad on top of her window seat.  I added a little pearl to each one and done!IMG_6568 All hung up.

I bought the flower hooks years ago at World Market.  I’m talking like for my first apartment in 2003.  But I never hung them up.  But I also couldn’t get rid of them.  I always thought they’d be so cute in a little girl’s room.  And ta-da. Perfect for holding all her headbands.IMG_7784Not sure what I’m going to do after making all her bows for winter outfits.  I’m going to have to make a second board! 
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