So now that we're almost two months into this whole motherhood thing, I thought I'd make a top 10 list of the items that I use the most often and love along with the top 4 things I don't use or am glad I didn't spend money on. These aren't the "fun" items like cute clothes and diaper bags, more some of the big ticket items. These are in no particular order. Just my top 10.
1. After reading The Happiest Baby on the Block, we've been big swaddlers. Owen gets swaddled for (almost) every nap and bedtime. It instantly calms him and keeps him from jerking himself awake. One of my absolutely favorite gifts was also one of my first gifts I got. Kimberly said she loved them and had to pass on the gift. I will also be passing along these blankets to other pregnant friends. They are Aden and Anais swaddle blankets (a little cheaper if you don't buy from their actual boutique Aden and Anais for Target). For a summer baby, these blankets are so universally perfect. They're lightweight and great for swaddling, using in the stroller, well, anywhere! I also love the Kiddopotamus SwaddleMe. He has a hard time breaking out of this one because of the velcro. I just got the next bigger size because we use it a lot!
2. I love my Boppy pilllow! It really helped with those frustrating first few days of breastfeeding. While I don't need to use it every time, it's definitely more comfortable to use it than not.
3. I had several people tell me that if I was staying home I didn't need a pump. Liers. I think that everyone who is breastfeeding NEEDS a good pump. There are times when my boobs just don't get the schedule right and I need to use this thing. And it's been great for starting to build up my stash of "liquid gold." I scoured Craigslist for a long time an scored an awesome, barely used Medela Pump in Style Advanced for a fraction of the cost!

8. I have to admit (and repent) that I made fun of the Summer Video Monitor and the mommies that needed them. I'm eating my words. I use this thing EVERY day now that my little man is in his crib far away from me (ok, a few feet isn't far). I love being able to see if he's crying becuase he just spit out his passy or if he's just fighting sleep and will be out soon.

10. This was one thing that I debated on while pregnant. WHY? I love that my guy likes his pacifier. It has been a lifesaver when he's crabby!
Things that almost made the cut:
Other things that I love and use a lot are sheet protectors. Much easier than changing the sheets! I also love my reusable breast pads. While they're not the best for going out in public because the circles they create, but they're perfect for the night and much more conforatble! I also love the gas drops. We haven't had to use them often, but they work super fast when we need them. Another small thing is diaper bag clips for the stroller. It makes it super easy to clip my bag onto the back and not take up my storage under the stroller.
*ETA - had to add pictures for Holly of the stroller clips. They clip onto my stroller and then hold the sides of my bag up high enough so it doesn't drag down by the wheels.
So, now the other end of the spectrum. I tried to make this a top 10 too, but could only come up with 4. These are a few things that I'm either glad I didn't buy or unfortunately, don't use a ton. I don't mean to offend anyone if you like these products, they just haven't been good for me!
1. A wipes warmer. Not needed. My little guy is just fine with his room temperature wipes, especially since I can't make the wipes warm when we're out and about, which is often!
4. I bought and got lots of small receiving blankets. While adorable, they've become pretty useless. They're too small for swaddling and even playing on the ground. I do use them for small stroller/car seat blankets, but overall I didn't need the TONS that I now have in his drawer.
What are some of your favorite items or things you wish you wouldn't have spent money on? I know they'll be different from mine as I'm quickly learning. . .every mom is SO different for what works for them!
I love your list, Emily! I completely agree about the Pampers - don't even bother with other brands. We use disposables for meconium/circumcision times (I still have Eland in disposables right now), and I decided to give organic Huggies a try. Bad idea! Pampers Swaddlers never leak, but I swear everything else does! ... And agreed on small receiving blankets, too. Eland got a 'Just One Year' set as a gift, and while I was very thankful, I immediately exchanged them for the Target Dwell Studio brand which is 36" square as opposed to 30"... and even bigger than that is better in my opinion. :)
ReplyDeleteok, tell me more about this diaper bag clip for the stroller! i'm clueless!
ReplyDeleteHolly - I went back and added pictures of my 2 sets of stroller clips. They work if your diaper bag has a ring on both sides!
ReplyDeleteGreat post, I love reading through your list :) Also very excited that you're thrilled with your Chicco system as we're getting the same one! Thanks for the helpful tips!
ReplyDeleteEmily, I love the list. I need to make one for my blog, too. I TOTALLY agree about the wipes warmer.
ReplyDeleteAs for all the extra receiving blankets, you could always use them for burp cloths too!
I need those stroller clips!! Where did you get those? I agree with you on a lot of your list (we have the exact same Chicco system, as you know!), although I am a LUVS diaper girl. Pampers leaked for us (not the swaddlers, but the other ones after swadlers), but Luvs never have, and they are a bit less expensive.
ReplyDeleteI also agree with the receiving blankets! We used them to roll up and put on either side of Kieran when he was swaddled and sleeping. That's about it!
Julie - I have 2 sets of clips, both that came with my diaper bags. (Is it bad that I have 3 diaper bags? :) But if you search diaper bag clips for strollers, a bunch come up that will work with any bag.
ReplyDeleteWe tried Luvs, but the first 3 diapers leaked on us so I gave them to a friend. Isn't it funny how every babe is different!
Great list ! Thanks! I am also a pampers swaddlers girl!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with the wipes warmer! My husband loves it, but I find it's a hassle to keep them moist. They always either seem too dry or too wet from adding water. I'd prefer to just use them room temperature and my little guy doesn't seem to mind when I do!
ReplyDeleteMillerfamilylife (I searched and searched on your blog but couldn;t find your name :) - I LOVE your little man's name!!
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